Sunday, January 01, 2012

New Year's Resolution


It is beautiful out here today. 1 January 2012. And the weather is stunning.

My resolutions for this year:


  1. Finally lose the weight. Finally.
  2. Exercise every day. Every day.
  3. Start saying no. At least once a week.
  4. For every ridiculous historical romance novel, read a good book.
  5. Spend a lot less money.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

RIP Tree

We had a dry hurricane here last week. We had wind registering 100 mph at the University. Two miles away at my house our 60 year old huge evergreen went down. I drove home increasingly nervous about our tree because I saw tree after tree down. When I turned left on my street I saw this:


I said to the kids, oh my god, stay in the car. I think our tree ate a car. I got out of the car and ran over to find a man standing there. He said he was stopped at the stop sign in front of our house, looked up and the tree fell on him. Down the road a bit a tree totaled a car - just smooshed it - it was in all the papers and all over the news. But my tree landed on this guy in his car and did no damage.



Here you see the tree from the street - notice that it is blocking most of the road. The white truck behind the tree is the City guy who said to me "it's your tree." I said, no shit, I know it's my tree. Let me wave my magic wand to fix it - because what they wanted was for me to pick it up and move it off the street. When I indicated the odds of my moving it in any kind of timely fashion were pretty slim, he called some other city guys and they chain sawed the guy's car out of the tree and cleared the tree off the road. Miraculously, the guy backed his car up and drove away - he has made no claim against my homeowner's insurance. Then two kids showed up and asked if we wanted to have him cut it all up and take it away for $500 - I said, yeah, go for it.

I cried and I laughed as I told this story. On my little quarter acre of land I have - had - 8 trees, now I have 7. And I loved my big evergreen - it housed the magpies who came every year to teach their babies to fly. It blocked the sun from the house and made the Princess's room very cool in the summer.

Once, when I was crying, the Princess told me it would be okay, we could plant another tree. She's right, and we will.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Fall Fun 2011

Black Island Farms


Three years ago a whole crowd of my friends brought their kids to Black Island Farms and we got pumpkins and we played and had a lot of fun. I have not been able to get that crowd together since, so this year I went alone with my kids and one friend. Even my husband was not available, so my friend played the role of surrogate spouse.



 When your husband is unavailable, you get to do all the cool stuff. Usually I am taking the pictures, this time I got to ride the slides. David and I did every slide together, even one that Elizabeth decided she did not want to do. Every slide.


Also, when your husband is not available, you are allowed to be a more permissive parent. I let David go alone in this little piggie ride - of course, his big sister was right in front of him, but off he went being pulled by a tractor. I actually could not see him for about 30 seconds, which was pretty scary.


We ended the day in a pumpkin patch, and we each got a pumpkin. Elizabeth picked for all of us and picked the biggest, fattest pumpkins she could find. And, of course, when your husband is not with you, you get to carry all the damn pumpkins.

Wonderful day!!

Sunday, September 25, 2011

In the Black


This was a hard week for me. I got a stomach bug that resulted in my not being able to stand for two days, missing two days of work, losing my voice, and 6 pounds. Then, as I rebounded from the stomach bug, I got a major head cold so now I can't breathe. I had sushi last night and at one point almost suffocated because I couldn't breathe around the dynamite roll in my mouth.

My nose hurts, my head hurts, my stomach hurt for a long time, and I am tired because I can't sleep.

BUT - through relentless hand washing and carefulness, my children have remained bug free. That is a positive. AND - my mammogram was normal this time as was my chick app't, so I am happy. No doctor's appointments until next August!!!

Thus, while down a bit for the count, I consider myself in the black.